Betrayal happens…
to good people,
by good people,
and in good relationships.
I know the unique struggles couples face after sexual, emotional, digital, or financial infidelity.
I want to share my expertise, compassion, and hope with you.
When your world is shattered by betrayal, you need strong guidance. You worry your relationship is broken beyond repair and that you’ll never trust again. Whether it is day one after discovery or you are years into unsuccessful attempts at healing, I will come alongside you with the structure and tools you need to move forward.
When you have been betrayed…
You ride unpredictable waves of explosive anger and total numbness
You feel heavy with an endless list of questions
You struggle with “flashbacks” and unwanted imagery of the betrayals
You question and judge yourself for how you could have missed the signs
You are desperate to rebuild safety, security, and trust
You don’t know where to begin
When you have done the betraying…
You feel overwhelming guilt and shame for causing this pain
You freeze up when your partner seeks answers
You can’t seem to say or do anything right in the wake of the damage
You worry it is too late to save what you have broken
You are desperate to rebuild safety, security, and trust
You don’t know where to begin
I work to create healing…
for couples who want to repair after betrayal
for partners who have been betrayed
for individuals who have committed the betrayals in their relationships